ROMANTIC AND SEXUAL FEELINGS: I’D LIKE TO HAVE A GIRL-FRIEND, BUT IS SOMEONE MY AGE (11) OLD ENOUGH TO HAVE SEX? I’M 12 AND THERE’S A CERTAIN BOY IN MY CLASS THAT I LIKE AND HE LIKES ME TOO. I’M SCARED OF HAVING SEX THOUGH. WHAT SHOULD I DO? WE KISSED GOODNIGHT AFTER OUR FIRST DATE. I WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM AGAIN, BUT WHAT IF I GET PREGNANT?
It’s usually younger boys and girls who ask these sorts of question. When we first heard questions like these, we have to admit that we were a bit shocked that boys and girls who were so young seemed to be asking questions about whether they were ready for sex. However, when we talked further with the very young boys and girls who asked these sorts of question, we realized that the reason they were asking them was often because they had very mistaken ideas about physical intimacy. Some of them seemed to think that kissing or being … Continue Reading