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GAMES FOR NARCISSISTIC COUPLES – GAME 3: FREAK LOVE (EXAMPLE)

The kind of freak one chooses to be will express unconscious fears. For example, men who harbor feelings that they are monstrous letches will dress that part. Women who have buried fears that they are evil witches will don the familiar witch’s hat and wield a broom. By dressing up like the freaks they unconsciously fear they are, that part of their personality, formerly repressed, will be allowed to surface.

Making love, either in a hotel room or at home, will be an enlightening experience. They will not … Continue Reading

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GAMES FOR HYSTERICAL COUPLES – GAME 2: NUDE INDOOR VOLLEYBALL (PART 2)

However, this brand of volleyball has two distinct twists. First, it is played in the nude. Second, the players are allowed to try to distract one another’s play by reaching under the net to fondle the other’s genitals while the opponent is trying to make a play. If you can arouse your opponent to such an extent that he or she misses a ball, great. If both become so aroused that they forget about playing entirely and fall to the floor in heated passion (perhaps popping the balloon on the way to the floor), that’s even better.

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GAMES FOR DEPRESSED COUPLES – GAME 1: THE FAIRY GODMOTHER (PART 2)

She guides him to a sofa or bed, sits beside him, and tousles his hair. “There now. Just lie back and let your godmom-my take care of everything.” She lays him back. “Yes, I’m here. Don’t worry about a thing. I’ll save you. Your fairy godmom-my will save you. Do you like your fairy godmommy?” She sits up and wiggles sensually. “Sure you do,” she coos sexily. “All little boys like their fairy godmommy! Now, you just relax. That’s a good boy. Relax.”

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GAMES FOR BORED COUPLES – GAME 5: SEXUAL CONFESSION (PART 1)

Players: Interrogator and confessor. Activists: Both husband and wife. Setting: Home or hotel.

Aim: Using nakedness and erotic touch as a “truth serum.”

Game Plan: The husband and wife lie or sit facing one another on a bed or sofa. They are naked. They take turns being the interrogator and the confessor.

The designated interrogator reaches out, fondles the genitals of the confessor, and asks, “Do you like that?”

“Yes, I like it.”

“Do you want me to continue?” “Yes, please continue.”

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JUNK SEX VS LOVING SEX – LOVER’S GAMES-2

These kinds of games do not lead to any resolution because they are linked to fixations in childhood and are in actuality defenses against intimacy. These defenses were developed on the heels of traumatic events. A three-year-old girl, for example, will discover that she has a vagina and that it feels good to rub her fingers (and other things) against it. She runs to her father and says, “Daddy, look at my vagina!” If the father has a block against sexuality, he may reply, “Don’t do that. That’s dirty.” Or he may become sexually exploitative. Or he … Continue Reading

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