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The kind of freak one chooses to be will express unconscious fears. For example, men who harbor feelings that they are monstrous letches will dress that part. Women who have buried fears that they are evil witches will don the familiar witch’s hat and wield a broom. By dressing up like the freaks they unconsciously fear they are, that part of their personality, formerly repressed, will be allowed to surface.

Making love, either in a hotel room or at home, will be an enlightening experience. They will not … Continue Reading

However, this brand of volleyball has two distinct twists. First, it is played in the nude. Second, the players are allowed to try to distract one another’s play by reaching under the net to fondle the other’s genitals while the opponent is trying to make a play. If you can arouse your opponent to such an extent that he or she misses a ball, great. If both become so aroused that they forget about playing entirely and fall to the floor in heated passion (perhaps popping the balloon on the way to the floor), that’s even better.

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She guides him to a sofa or bed, sits beside him, and tousles his hair. “There now. Just lie back and let your godmom-my take care of everything.” She lays him back. “Yes, I’m here. Don’t worry about a thing. I’ll save you. Your fairy godmom-my will save you. Do you like your fairy godmommy?” She sits up and wiggles sensually. “Sure you do,” she coos sexily. “All little boys like their fairy godmommy! Now, you just relax. That’s a good boy. Relax.”

The fairy godmother may now try one … Continue Reading

Players: Interrogator and confessor. Activists: Both husband and wife. Setting: Home or hotel.

Aim: Using nakedness and erotic touch as a “truth serum.”

Game Plan: The husband and wife lie or sit facing one another on a bed or sofa. They are naked. They take turns being the interrogator and the confessor.

The designated interrogator reaches out, fondles the genitals of the confessor, and asks, “Do you like that?”

“Yes, I like it.”

“Do you want me to continue?” “Yes, please continue.”

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These kinds of games do not lead to any resolution because they are linked to fixations in childhood and are in actuality defenses against intimacy. These defenses were developed on the heels of traumatic events. A three-year-old girl, for example, will discover that she has a vagina and that it feels good to rub her fingers (and other things) against it. She runs to her father and says, “Daddy, look at my vagina!” If the father has a block against sexuality, he may reply, “Don’t do that. That’s dirty.” Or he may become sexually exploitative. Or he … Continue Reading

Another element germane to the homosexual picture is that of narcissism. Freud once commented that the homosexual is often so intensely narcissistic that he cannot love a being that is other than himself, that is, a being without a penis (in the case of the male). The narcissistic wish often expresses itself as the substitute for oedipal strivings, that is, once the homosexual has identified himself with his mother, he begins to behave as he had once wished his mother to behave toward him. This leads to a choice of libidinal objects such as men or boys … Continue Reading

Most people do not question their own or others’ established gender identity and role as male or female. They are readily accepted at face value. What is said and done by men and women in different societies varies and may overlap, since dimorphic norms of gender role are culturally and historically determined. But once an individual’s identity and role as a male or a female become differentiated, they remain stable and are unlikely to be shaken even by major crises in life, physiological, social, or accidental.

The greater proportion of gender identity/ role differentiation takes … Continue Reading

The industrial revolution pulled out thousands of women from behind the hearth and crib and forced them into the labor markets of the budding capitalist economy. Women’s participation in national economy has changed their social roles. The privileged role of provider which was the backbone of the traditional, male-dominated family structure began to crack, and currently it is heading toward an unprecedented crisis (Ackerman).

The erosion of the traditional male-female relationship took place first in the lowest and then in the highest social classes. The middle classes have been the notorious … Continue Reading

The question of how sexuality influences the development of personality has become a central focus for many clinicians, investigators in the field of human behavior, and developmentalists. It has become more important during the last three or four decades, as the role of early experiences in the final shape of the personality has become better understood. It also has been recognized that early individual differences among infants have a lasting effect throughout life (Escalona).

The civil-rights movement of the sixties, started by black Americans and other oppressed minorities more conscious of their conditions and seeking … Continue Reading

The experience of orgasm by the female has been variously valued, even during the present century. Kinsey, for example, commented on the “post-Victorian” development of the idea that respectable women should enjoy marital coitus. Even so, he cited a 1951 study which found evidence in the British working class that responsiveness in the wife was hardly expected and if too marked, was disapproved. Kinsey’s research suggested to him that orgasm was not nearly as important to the female as it was to the male. Without orgasm, she could still feel pleasure in the “social aspects” of a … Continue Reading